I know it seems I have fallen off the face of the blogging earth. Just know my ass has been
lazy busy. I’m back so you all can breath and jump for joy now.
Before we get to the good stuff, let me differentiate between my own definition of the nice guy (versus a good guy).
Good guys are just naturally good guys who do good things for people (whether these people are hot chicks or not) because that’s just who they are.
My own personal definition of a nice guy: It’s guys who act nice (as a doormat or needy) in order to ‘win’ the girl of their dreams
of the moment. And then they get all butt hurt and bitter when the girl didn’t fall madly in love with him because of all the butt kissing he did, and blames all women for being superficial dumbasses who will only date jerks instead of recognizing their own innate greatness and falling at their feet. Instead of maybe admitting that they lacked confidence or realistic expectations, or compatibility because they just really wanted to fuck that girl.
This isn’t strictly for guys. I know plenty of “nice” girls with their own self-esteem issues and unrealistic expectations who have their ‘ men are superficial pigs rants’
which can be fun sometimes, other times not. It can go both ways.
Just because you were nice to a hot girl, doesn’t make you entitled to fucking her. Sorry (not really). It’s just not how it works. Being nice doesn’t equal being a great catch, and more importantly, compatibility with that girl.
It’s just annoying to hear guys blame being nice for the reason why
always the hot girls turn them down, when it’s really not the issue.
To explain it in her own special, magical way, here’s my girl Jenna Marbles. Watch and learn.
Look in the mirror guys and size yourself up. Take action. Take responsibility. And you will have your day of no complaints.