I have a question for you. Apologies if you have covered this territory before.
Can you be friends with an ex? I know it’s stupid to try to be friends with an recent ex, but am currently exploring a friendship with an ex from four years ago (after being out of contact for three). I have accepted the fact that we are no good for each other romantically and to go there would be a disaster, but am still extremely attracted to him. Am I kidding myself trying to have a platonic relationship with him? (question and answer from comments section in ‘Belated Ask a Bitch!’)
I actually haven’t!
I agree with Reema. If you’re still attracted to him, then the ‘platonic’ relationship will be a disaster. I would only recommend if you were completely unattracted to him AND he added value to your life (other than masculine attention).
Reema’s advice: I think you already know the answer to this. Deep down you know you shouldn’t be friends with him but you’re holding out to bang him again. Charge this situation to the game and just go find a dude that you are good with.
If you haven’t checked out Reema’s blog yet, Reema Chronicles, you should and get some good ‘game’! Reema gives great dating advice for men and women. And he comments and advises on my blog often!
What do you think about on/off relationships?
I think it’s great if you want a part-time relationship! But if you’re a girl, most likely that’s probably not what you were shooting for, is it? If you’re a dude, you get to have a steady with jump-offs. Either way, not the road to future bliss. Does that answer your question?
Cool post.my question is why do the good guy never works on women.the thing is like when i do the badass style women flock to me but when i do the good thing giving a girl that attention,care she flees away.why is the girls that i don give a fuck like me,those i do give a fuck never give a fuck about me what should i do to get those that i give a fuck about.
Because girls, like dudes, are attracted to confidence. So when you’re out being a dick and not giving a fuck, girls pick up on it and flock to you. But when you act all scurred, it makes us have a question mark about you and we stay away. The nice guy act is boring at best, and insincere at worst. Be honest, be confident. Don’t give her something just because you think it will ‘get’ her. Do it because you really want to. And be smart enough to know the difference. And don’t give a fuck how she reacts. If she digs the REAL you, then you’ve really hit a homerun!
And since I’m in a referral mood, you can check this article out on Tripp Advice website called “Why Honesty Attracts Women”. Tripp gives men dating advice on his site.
There’s a security guard at my parking garage at work who always flirts with me and asks me out to dinner. I am not attracted to him, but he is funny and sometimes I wonder what it would be like to be with him. Should I check it out? What if I change my mind and don’t want to date him anymore after a date or two? How would I ‘breakup’ with him?
A security guard? Ugh. The only reason to date one is if he is hot. Otherwise, pass. You don’t seem too into it. Put on your hot clothes and meet
wealthier more ambitious men so you can stop idly thinking about this loser because you have nothing better to fuck.