I met a great guy at a bar two weeks ago. He was charming & smart & funny and we had a great meeting. We talked on the phone a few times and he mentioned his love of golf. I think it’s boring. He wanted to take me but I didn’t want to go, not for our first date. Maybe down the road. So he said he would take me out to eat so we could get to know each other more. And that he also had a surprise for me. When he picked me up for the date, he wanted to ‘surprise’ me first and took me straight to a golf course. I was pissed! He ignored what I said to him. Should I give him another chance?
Only if you plan on going back to the course. If not sooner, then definitely later, because that’s seems to be a dealbreaker for him. If he ignores other requests and boundaries you have, which he seems to have the potential to do, then RUN.
I’m in love with a married man. We weren’t looking for each other, but it happened. I know he won’t leave his wife for me even though he is very unhappy. I know all married men who cheat say they are unhappy, but he really really is. His wife has most of the money; they have properties, investments, horses, and country club status to maintain. His business isn’t very stable so if he leaves her, he will lose everything.
If he really, really is unhappy in his marriage, then he was looking for someone like you all along to string on the side. But someone else’s money and lifestyle seems to be more important to him than you or his ‘happiness’. If this is working for you, then have at it. But I doubt it, why did you send this info to me?
P.S. in my own defense – At least female goldiggers are faithful! When it comes to a cash cow, we do not fuck around!
If I don’t come on too strong with my money, then how do you get a girl interested? And keep her interested?
Do you have a personality? Then use it.
I am dating a guy who is giving me lots of attention, and I know its early (3 weeks), but I like him, the sex is off the hook, and we are having fun. We also know that we have to get to know each other, and we are interested in getting to know each other and want to make it work. Sometimes its nice to just go along with it and let it play out. But I am concerned that we may never actually go through the ‘getting to know each other’ part. How do I make sure that happens?
Aw. That does sound like fun. Until it doeasn’t play out in the way you wanted it to. Hey, if you wanna have fun, have fun. But don’t make it more than what it is. You’re interested in getting to know each other?Riiiiiiiiight. I’m sorry but it doesn’t take a genius to know that the ‘off the hook’ sex is gonna eclipse that. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. How many more ways can I say it?
There is this guy who says he likes me and we talk and text all the time, but he never invites me out on a date. He always invites me to come over to his place. I’ve held out so far but I’m curious as to what will happen. Should I hold out for a real date or just go over there and see what happens?
You’re curious to see what will happen if you go over there? LOL. If you wanna ‘fun fuck’ and get some temporary attention, go for it. If not, then wait for another guy to ask you out on a date. This dude has no plans to.
If you want my bitchy advice, please ask away in the comments section or email me at bossymoksie@gmail.com. I will answer in a future blog post.
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Sound advice. I agree, whole-heartedly, with the last one. If he was going to ask her on a date, he would have within the first phone call or first few texts. Guys who want to date a girl do not play around.
I don’t know why women forget that! Instead they play around with dudes who obviously just want to play around.
All good advice here. Surprisingly I have nothing to add.
I am taking that as a compliment so thanks!
haha you should 🙂
I think the guy in the last question should be given a chance (depending on how well she can read him). If he pulls out the wine as soon as she walks in the door, then maybe it’s not something she should pursue. But who knows, he might have something creative planned! (Again, gotta judge his personality, since most guys would def be aiming to get laid if they’re asking to stay at their place)
Nothing creative is gonna happen when a girl goes over a guy’s house at night, unless you count babymaking as something creative. She should give him a chance and hang out with him. In public.
Yeah Ego is thinking about cupcaking. Inviting women over to play scrabble and bake sugar cookies. That will get you in the friend zone or trick bag. Either way, not mackish!
Awww. Either way it is not a good look. You either look cheap, horny, or like you don’t know what you are doing. Unless you are in junior high. I would have liked that in junior high.