My cousin was dating this guy for a few months and they were ‘madly in love’. I didn’t like him. He rubbed me the wrong way but I kept my mouth shut. Until she asked me. I told her and he overheard (they were attached at the hip). Well a week later he dumped her! And he said it was because of her family, meaning me. Now she’s mad at me, because they were picking out wedding rings and everything. Did I mess this up for her?
Um, you’re not the douche here. You’re fucking psychic and just saved her from a lot more pain and heartache down the road. Real love means not dumping your wife-to-be because her family is talking shit. If that were the case then no one would ever get married. You were just the scapegoat. You should be the one that’s pissed!
It’s easy for you to say walk away and not talk, but some of us have to speak up to get what we want! Or else the guy will never know! I have to keep repeating it and letting him know how I feel and why and what he should do. If I just walk away and don’t say anything, nothing will happen.
What if you really want to get married and you’ve been dating for two years and there’s not even a peep about the subject? Am I supposed to just leave and hope he runs after me and proposes?
Aren’t ultimatums the same as your “walking boots”? I thought you didn’t believe in ultimatums? Just checking?
I have a crush on this guy and he won’t ask me out. I want to let him know that I’m interested but don’t want things to get weird between us if he doesn’t feel that way about me. How can I find out if he likes me too?
If you want my bitchy advice, please ask away in the comments section or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I will answer in a future blog post.